Digital influencer and content creator Mueni has assertively maintained that her husband, Bolo Bespoke’s cheating days are long over, maintaining at this point in their union, he would never cheat on her.
Since their traditional wedding late last year, Mueni says marriage to Bolo Bespoke has been surprisingly easy, attributing this to their strong friendship and effective communication.
She confidently noted that Bolo is now focused on making money and no longer has time for chasing other women.
According to the content creator, Bolo had his fair share of “fun” during their dating phase, including episodes of infidelity, but she believes that chapter is firmly behind them.
“Tushatoka huko ndugu yangu (we’ve already left that phase, my brother). We have fought in this Nairobi. If anyone is waiting for his cheating era—it’s already passed. He cheated so much. That part is over. Now it’s time for him to look for money. I can’t cheat. I have one husband. I’m a one-woman man—one man at a time,” Mueni stated firmly.
Reflecting on their union, she added:
“Marriage is easy; it’s not hard. I chose my husband to be my best friend. When the romantic love isn’t there, the friendship still is. There are days you look at your partner and you’re just mad—not because love is gone, but that ‘lovey-dovey’ phase fades. When that fades, friendship carries you through.”
Mueni also shared how their deep connection shows in daily life:
“I wake up with him every day. We work together. So when I don’t go to Bespoke, he notices. We’re so used to each other now that we honestly can’t live without one another.”
A Rocky Past: 12 Women in 4 Months
However, just after their wedding, Mueni shocked fans by revealing that their relationship hadn’t always been smooth. She accused Bolo of cheating on her with 12 different women over just four months.
Even more painfully, she said that before they briefly broke up, she had caught him with no fewer than eight other women.
Recalling how she uncovered his serial cheating, Mueni shared:
“I used to take your phone… I had studied your password for a whole month. On the day I struck, I told you, ‘Babe, let’s pass by a wines and spirits shop’ and I bought you a bottle of whiskey—even though I don’t drink.”
She added with a smirk:
“As a woman, you have to be smart. The evidence won’t just come to you while you’re sitting pretty. I’d take your phone, screenshot everything, and forward it to myself. Then I’d post myself on your WhatsApp status with the caption: ‘The love of my life.’”
Mueni detailed the well-planned routine:
“I’d get you whiskey, cook ugali with meat, and let you eat to your fill while sipping your drink. Then, boom—your phone would blow up. A multitude of women came at you, all mad you were cheating on them—and that they weren’t the only one.”
Laughing, she recalled how overwhelmed Bolo was by the flood of angry messages from other women.
“I Thought I Was the Only One”
Despite her current peace in marriage, Mueni didn’t shy away from admitting how deeply hurt she was at the time:
“Kumbe I used to leave on Sunday and by Monday you had someone else. I really thought that after spending the whole weekend together, you wouldn’t need to be busy with someone else the next day,” she said candidly.
BY hannie petra
