The media personality argued that marriage no longer discourages people from pursuing someone who is already married. Instead, he claimed that some people now see marriage as the beginning of competition rather than a boundary to respect.
Obinna said this applies to both men and women. According to him, when a man gets married, some women begin showing interest in him, while a married woman may also attract attention from other men.
“If it’s a man, he just got married, now that is where all the ladies… When it’s a lady, she just got married, the men are like, ‘Okay, now let the games begin.’”
Former partners also return.
Obinna also claimed that ex-partners often reappear after someone gets married. He suggested that former lovers sometimes use the occasion to revisit the past or speak about previous relationships.
“Ma exes wanakuja… If it’s a woman, all the male exes… If it’s a man, the female exes now show up.” He added that these encounters can create unnecessary distractions for newly married couples.
