My name is Grace, and I am from Kisumu. For many years, my love life was a painful mystery that left me confused, embarrassed, and emotionally drained. Every time I entered a serious relationship, things would move well at the beginning. The man would show love, introduce me to friends, and even talk openly about marriage. Families would be informed, plans discussed, and sometimes dates for introductions mentioned. Then suddenly, without warning, everything would change.Just when marriage plans became serious, the man would start behaving strangely.
Calls reduced, excuses increased, and arguments started over small issues. Within a short time, he would completely change his mind and walk away. Some told me they were not ready for marriage anymore, others said they felt confused, while some simply disappeared without explanation. This happened repeatedly with different men, and the endings were always the same—rejection at the final stage.What hurt me the most was that people started blaming me. Some said I was too demanding, others claimed I was unlucky, and a few even suggested I was cursed. I tried changing myself. I became quieter, more understanding, more patient, but nothing worked. I prayed, fasted, and even avoided relationships for a while, hoping things would change. But every time I tried again, the same painful pattern repeated itself.Living in Kisumu, the pressure…..To continue reading,CLICK HERE
