Digital content creator and dancer Ajib Gathoni has shared that her communication skills have significantly improved, crediting her current relationship for helping her become more expressive, self-aware and intentional in how she engages with her partner.
She made the remarks during a recent interview with ‘TwoPeasInAPod’ podcast.
Clearer Expression of Emotions
Ajib noted that she has experienced a marked shift in how she handles difficult conversations compared to her past relationships.
She said the change has been gradual and shaped by consistent effort and an environment that encourages open dialogue.
“Honestly I commend my partner now, he is the one who taught me how to communicate,” she said.
According to her, expressing emotions early—before frustrations build up—has reduced conflict and made resolution easier.
She added that her partner’s willingness to listen and provide space for her to speak has played a major role in this adjustment.
Accountability and Improved Tone
The content creator also highlighted accountability as a key lesson in her growth.
She explained that she has become more comfortable acknowledging when she may be wrong or when her tone contributes to rising tension.
“I feel like if I communicated better before so many things could have gone differently,” she said.
She said being with someone who values calm and respectful exchanges has made her more aware of how she frames her thoughts during conversations.
Patience During Disagreements
Ajib further stated that patience has become an important part of how she now approaches disagreements.
Instead of reacting quickly or withdrawing, she prefers to take time to process her thoughts before responding.
She said this approach has helped prevent misunderstandings that previously escalated due to emotional reactions or rushed conclusions.
Understanding Non-Verbal Cues
In addition to verbal communication, Ajib noted growth in her understanding of non-verbal cues.
She explained that recognising moments when silence, reassurance or space is needed has strengthened her connection with her partner.
She said these subtle shifts have contributed to smoother interactions and fewer unnecessary conflicts.
Positive Impact on Her Personal Development
Although Ajib did not reveal details about her partner, she maintained that the relationship has been beneficial to her personal development and emotional maturity.
“Right now I communicate better,it flows to my other relationships,” she added.
She emphasised that the improvements she has made extend beyond the relationship itself and reflect her wider journey toward becoming more aware and communicative.
By Eugene okumu
