Kenyan entrepreneur and philanthropist Lillian Ng’ang’a has used her Instagram stories to share candid thoughts on personal style and self-care.
In a series of posts, she urged women to reconsider their reliance on wigs and offered simple tips for finding joy in everyday life.

The Case Against Wigs
In a direct message to her audience, Ng’ang’a expressed a strong opinion about a popular fashion accessory.
“We need to honestly ease up on wearing wigs,” she wrote. She suggested that a poorly styled wig can detract from an otherwise polished look, stating that “great make-up and outfits are spoiled by that not-so-well-done wig“.
Her advice was clear and concise:
“Abandon, please. It’s too much!”

The statement sparked a conversation among her followers about the pressures of modern beauty standards and the value of natural hair.
Simple Ways to Romanticise Your Life
Beyond her fashion advice, Ng’ang’a shared a visual guide on “How to Romanticize Your Life”.
The infographic offered a collection of small, deliberate actions aimed at enhancing daily living. Her tips included:
- Taking an extra minute in the morning to enjoy a cup of tea or coffee.
- Lighting candles while cooking dinner.
- Taking evening walks to unwind and reflect on your day.
- Making your space beautiful with flowers, cozy blankets or soft lighting.
- Wearing outfits that make you feel confident and comfortable.
- Capturing beautiful moments through photos or journaling
- Creating a “feel-good” playlist.
Lillian Nganga // Instagram - Reading books that transport you to another world.
- Planning a realistic “best day” and living it out.
- Visiting local parks, museums, and hidden gems in your neighborhood.
- Rewarding yourself regularly for your efforts and,
- Transforming routine tasks into delightful experiences, such as playing music while cleaning.
The advice resonated with many, encouraging them to find beauty and pleasure in simple moments.
From Controversy to Candidness
The former Machakos County First Lady has become known for her frank social media posts, which often generate significant public debate.

She gained national prominence during her relationship with former Machakos Governor Alfred Mutua. The pair’s separation in 2021 became a contentious affair.
Shortly after her split from the politician, her relationship with musician Juliani became a focal point of public scrutiny.
Despite widespread criticism, Nganga defended her decision, stating she was prioritising her personal happiness over public opinion.
The musician’s wife has since used her platform to speak out against online harassment and defend her life choices.
Her relatable and often controversial statements have kept her in the public eye, even as she has moved on to focus on personal and professional growth.
by moses sagwe
