Popular fitness influencer and entrepreneur Frankie Kiarie, widely known as Frankie JustGymIt, is no stranger to scrutiny. But in a recent interview aired on Beatz and Buzz Wednesday, July 9, 2025, the outspoken father-of-four offered rare insight into the emotional toll of living under the microscope, especially when it comes to parenting and personal relationships.
The Pressure of “Public Parenting”
Frankie opened up about the unique burden of being a father in the limelight, revealing how the public often feels entitled to weigh in on his every move.
“Some fans think they have the authority to decide who I should date or how I should raise my kids,” he shared candidly. “People act like they know my life just because I’m online. They confuse visibility with access.”
While he’s known for posting family and fitness content, Frankie drew a clear line between public image and private reality. “You can’t live to please people who only know 15 seconds of your life through stories and reels.”
Keyboard Critics vs. Real-Life Support
Frankie also addressed the stark contrast between online negativity and real-life kindness.
“There are so many keyboard warriors out there,” he noted. “But in person, 95% of the time, people are supportive. The real world isn’t as toxic as the internet makes it seem.”
He emphasized the importance of tuning out the noise, focusing instead on those who truly matter — his children.
“Being a Present Dad Is Not Optional”
Frankie rejected the idea that showing up for your kids is something to be praised for.
“As a man, being present isn’t something extraordinary. It’s not a side quest — it’s the actual job,” he said. “I don’t do it for claps. I do it because I must.”
Despite the weight of public expectations, he remains grounded in his primary role: provider and protector.
“This life, this grind — it pays the bills, the school fees. It puts food on the table. That’s what matters.”
BY bradley odhiambo
