Content creator Naomi Kuria has explained why she chooses not to watch The Polygamist, saying she wants to guard her heart and protect her perspective on marriage.
Speaking candidly in a recent video, Naomi said she strongly believes in marriage and does not want to consume content that could influence her to develop a negative view of long-term relationships.
According to her, people must be conscious of the type of content they consume because repeated exposure can shape their perception of reality.
Naomi said she believes many online conversations surrounding divorce and failed relationships can unintentionally programme people to lose faith in marriage.
“I’m so delusional when it comes to some things, because anything that is happening out here, if you’re really not conscious enough, it is a system to programme you to see things in a certain way, which is really not it.”
She added that she intentionally distances herself from stories that could alter her mindset.
‘I believe in marriage 1,000 per cent’
Naomi said she remains optimistic about her future despite the increasing number of relationship break-ups discussed online.
She explained that she does not allow divorce stories to influence her expectations about her own love life.
“I make sure that these divorce stories don’t move me even an inch. I’ll get married, and my love life will be a happy ever after, no matter what.”
Naomi Kuria // Instagram
The content creator also stated that she believes in marriage “1,000 per cent” and wants to preserve that belief by being intentional about what she watches.
Online reactions spark debate.
Some users praised her for setting personal boundaries and choosing content that aligns with her values.
jdaz112:You’ve made a conscious decision, stick to it!.. There’s too much misinformation and disinformation in today’s world. Not every trend is for everyone! Guard your mind, heart, and
shi_gakwa:Love this perspective and amen to everything you’ve declared for yourself!
dianahdaisy:Aint gonna watch that thing too and am neither interested…i believe in marriage so its good guard your heart ❤️…out of the abudance of the heart the mouth speaketh 😍
Jaluo3000:The best plans are laid by humans…sometimes we plan but the heart decides it wants what we wants
Others argued that avoiding certain programmes does not necessarily shield people from the realities that some couples experience in marriage.
Valentinenjoroge:Ata sisi tushai kuwa apo😂😂😂🤣🤣 but anyway ni sawa guard your spirit😂😂😆😆
Lovely_nevin:Je, wajua pale kwa tajiri (oga) mko watatu??😂😂 polygamy hiyo tayari😂😂😂
The wider conversation around relationships online
Relationship content has become one of the most consumed categories on social media platforms. Discussions about divorce, break-ups and marriage challenges often attract millions of views and generate intense public debate.
Experts in digital wellbeing have previously encouraged people to consume online content critically, as repeated exposure to specific narratives can influence attitudes and behaviour.
However, they also note that individual experiences differ and that online stories do not represent every relationship.
“People’s experiences are different, and one person’s story does not define everyone else’s future.”
For Naomi Kuria, her decision is a personal one. Rather than avoiding marriage altogether, she says she is choosing to protect her optimism and maintain a positive outlook on her future relationships.
