Kenyan choreographer and content creator Tileh Pacbro has weighed in on the now-viral “marriage hubamba mafala” debate that has been trending on social media.
In a post shared on his Instagram stories, Tileh appeared to challenge the dismissive view of marriage, pointing out the value of commitment and companionship in a family setup.
Adding his voice to the conversation, Tileh Pacbro shared a detailed perspective on why marriage should not be dismissed.
He listed several benefits of having a committed partner, including:
Someone to always be there for you.
A person to work with on shared goals.
Raising a happy family together.
Having a partner who listens even in disagreements.
Someone reliable who has your back every day.
A partner who knows you so well they could even fill out your CV or apply for a passport on your behalf.
Tileh concluded his response by asking rhetorically whether these qualities “sound like ufala ” to anyone.
Origin of the Statement
The phrase “marriage hubamba mafala” first surfaced after comedian and content creator Chebet Rono addressed the topic of marriage in one of her online interactions.
Her post suggested that marriage may not be as exciting as society often portrays it.
The statement quickly spread online, sparking debate among Kenyans. Some agreed with her sentiments, while others argued she was simply mocking an institution that still holds meaning for many.
Celebrity Reactions
Chebet Rono’s remarks drew mixed reactions from fellow celebrities. Artists like Bien Aime Baraza of Sauti Sol and singer Arrow Bwoy came forward to counter her view.
They highlighted the importance of love, unity, and family, stressing that marriage could be fulfilling when grounded in genuine commitment and partnership.
Their comments helped intensify the online discourse, as fans joined the conversation with their own diverse opinions.
Broader Debate
His remarks have since resonated with fans who believe marriage remains valuable despite changing societal attitudes.
At the same time, the debate continues online, with younger audiences questioning whether marriage still fits into modern lifestyles.
What is clear is that the viral statement has triggered one of the most candid celebrity-driven discussions on marriage in Kenya this year — with Tileh Pacbro being the latest to add his thoughtful perspective.
by judy mutinda
