In a candid interview with Dr King’ori, Njugush spoke honestly about the complexities of family connections, admitting that he doesn’t maintain close ties with every relative.
According to the comedian, biological relationships don’t always equate to emotional closeness or trust.
“There are people we just interact with because our parents shared parents. But beyond that, I’d rather help someone from outside the family,” he explained. “In my family, I pick those I’m close to. I don’t talk to every family member.”
Njugush stated that his loyalty lies with those who’ve genuinely impacted his life, regardless of blood ties.
“Human being is me first. If I get something today, I will consider Abel first before I think of someone else from the family,” he said, referring to fellow comedian Abel Mutua, a long-time friend and collaborator.
He went on to challenge the age-old saying that “blood is thicker than water,” pointing out that in many cases, help and support often come from friends or even strangers rather than close kin.
“Sometimes the blood is not always thick,” he noted, reflecting a pragmatic approach to relationships.
But while Njugush’s views on extended family may seem detached, his relationship with his father tells a very different story—one of warmth, guidance, and mutual respect.
In a previous interview with Parents Magazine in May 2021, Njugush opened up about growing up with a reverend father who, while strict on discipline, was emotionally present and nurturing.
Their bond was unique and strong, with Njugush praising his dad for speaking openly about even the most uncomfortable topics, such as sex—something many African parents shy away from.
Despite being a man of the cloth, his father defied stereotypes about Kikuyu men not being romantic.
Instead, he expressed his love through action—ensuring his family’s needs were met and participating in everyday activities like feeding the chickens.
“My dad provided what he never had himself. That’s the most touching part,” Njugush shared.
From supporting his early interest in music and drama to encouraging his transition from electrician to actor and journalist, his dad remained a pillar of support.
Now a father himself, Njugush said he hoped to carry forward that legacy. “I want to provide more than I got, attend football games, be involved. Because at some point, you can lose touch with your kids. That’s the kind of dad I want to be.”
By Geoffrey mbuthia
