Public figure Gloria Ntazola has drawn attention after making remarks about marriage, domestic care, and relationships involving married men.
In a statement that has circulated widely, she spoke directly to married women, questioning whether they take time to wash and massage their husbands’ legs when they return home from work.
“Wenye mmeolewa, huwa mnaosha wanaume wenu miguu wakitoka job?” she asked.
Her comments framed this act as a form of care she believes is often overlooked, while at the same time being a service she says other women are willing to provide.
Focus on Care After Work
Ntazola emphasized the moment when men return home tired from work, presenting it as an opportunity for connection and attention. She stated that some married women neglect this aspect of care, yet later complain about other women being involved with their husbands.
According to her remarks, washing and massaging a man’s legs after work is not merely a physical act but a sign of attentiveness.
She suggested that this attention creates appreciation and loyalty from men, which she linked to material rewards and special treatment.
“Sisi huwa tunaosha miguu, ndiyo maana tunanunuliwa magari.” She stated.
Contrast Between Domestic Duties
In her address, Ntazola drew a distinction between routine household responsibilities and what she described as intentional personal care.
She noted that many married women focus on cooking, cleaning, and caring for children, while overlooking gestures directed solely at their husbands.
“Kazi yako itakuwa ya kupika, kuosha watoto, kukaa.” She said.
She contrasted this with women who, in her view, prioritize personal attention such as washing and massaging legs. Ntazola portrayed these gestures as central to why some women receive expensive gifts, cars, or trips abroad from married men.
Warning Directed at Married Women
Ntazola’s message carried a cautionary tone. She warned that if married women fail to provide certain forms of care, others are ready to step in.
She positioned this dynamic as competitive, suggesting that relationships can shift based on who offers more attention and comfort.
Public Reactions
- user nairobian Stepper:
Wait, so has she already accepted her position as a “side chick”? 😂😂 - user clout Wallace:
Everyone should just do what they want. Let’s reduce the amount of advice being given. 😂😂 - user mwehndew:
This one acts like she knows everything. - user ma.jai:
Mine just came back from work and handed me Brufen. - user vikta Paret:
Relax, you will also get that husband and end up washing his legs too. Time will tell. What goes around comes around. - DJ Miasis:
Why focus so much on being a side chick? It sounds like shaming. - user kabrownie:
Everyone should do for their husband whatever works for them.
by Jane nduta
