The robust morning conversation on Classic 105 FM, hosted by Mike Mondo and co-host Mwalimu King’ang’i, recently highlighted a powerful story of hitting rock bottom.
The discussion focused on Paul Murunga, known as Pablo. His devastating experience was initially shared during an ‘Engaged Talk’ at Nairobi Chapel Lavington.
The radio hosts admitted the narrative was heartbreaking.
A Once Perfect Life
Paul Murunga’s life was once marked by great success. He was a former member of the Kenyan national rugby team. He also helped start clubs like Nondies.
Later, Pablo worked for an ad agency, earning substantial amounts of money. He had it all, including a career that was “on point”. Money was not a problem for him.
The Descent into Financial Ruin
Pablo made the decision to quit his well-paying job. He intended to start his own business agency. However, this venture failed badly.
His savings ran out. Suddenly, he became entirely dependent on his wife (now his ex-wife). The business failure caused his marriage to collapse.
By the age of 49, Pablo faced numerous tragedies. He lost his mother to cancer during this difficult period. His wife eventually left him, taking the children.
“At 49 years of age, he found himself moving back into his father’s house. The wife left. He was broke, grieving and lost completely”.
Pablo described himself during this time as a “49-year-old manchild”. He felt “jobless, hopeless, penniless, worthless”.
Seeking Support
The story resonated deeply with listeners, prompting many to call in. Mike Mondo noted that many men are surprised by the number of men who have hit rock bottom.
The discussion highlighted the difficulties women face when supporting men through such crises. A core message shared by Pablo during his original talk was profound:
“Women are not built to carry men.”
He also observed that being broke does not just break the man, but also breaks their women. They often struggle because they do not know how to help the father of their children.
A Brother’s Crucial Help
When Pablo reached his lowest point, his friends had disappeared, and his phone no longer rang.
He was lucky to have his brother. His brother stood by him, simply making tea and sitting with him. This support was instrumental.
His brother helped him get back on his feet. Pablo is now involved in educating young men about the realities of life. He advises those struggling to find someone they trust to talk to.
by moses sagwe
