Renowned Kenyan preacher and motivational speaker Robert Burale recently opened up about his relationship status. Speaking on the Alex Mwakideu TV podcast, Burale confirmed he is not married. However, he quickly clarified that this does not mean he is single.
Burale confirmed that he is currently seeing someone. When asked, he specified that the woman is female and Kenyan.
He stated that he is ready to move forward, saying: “I may not be married yet. I am not married, but it does not mean I am single”.
Meaning Behind ‘Not Married, But Not Single’ Relationship
When someone describes their relationship as “Not Married, But Not Single!” they typically mean they are in a committed, long-term relationship where they are living with or have the responsibilities and emotional connection of a partner, but they have not legally tied the knot.
This situation is commonly referred to as cohabitation, a partnership where two people live together in a committed relationship without being legally married.
Here are the key aspects of this status:
- Committed Partnership:
The individuals are in a serious, romantic relationship that goes beyond a casual dating arrangement.
- Living Together (Often):
Many couples in this situation live together, sharing a household and finances.
- No Legal Marriage:
The couple has not exchanged vows or gone through a legal marriage ceremony.
- Not Single:
They are not looking for other partners and have a deep connection, effectively avoiding the freedom and solitude of being single.
- Emotional & Life Partnership:
They share a significant portion of their lives, with goals and plans often intertwined, similar to a married couple.
The Quick Breakdown of a Good Partnership
The conversation was significant as the host, Alex Mwakideu, is Burale’s former brother-in-law. Burale was married to Mwakideu’s sister, Rozina.
The marriage was brief, lasting “just over one year and a few days” according to the preacher.
Despite the short duration, Burale affirmed that the split was not due to typical marital failures. He stated clearly that there was “no violence in my marriage”.
He also insisted there was “no infidelity in my marriage”.
Burale explained that sometimes two good people simply do not work out. He maintained absolute respect for his ex-wife, whom he described as a “great woman of God” and a “great mother”.
Lessons from Failure
During the interview, Burale was honest about his role in the end of the marriage. He explained that he failed in that area of his life.
He believes he did not rise to the level he should have as a man and a leader at the time.
One major error he identified was allowing too many external voices into the relationship. He advised others not to bring everyone into their issues.
He reflected on the breakdown of the marriage, stating: “I think it’s just that sometimes two good people just didn’t work out.”
A Long Wait for Love
The motivational speaker revealed that he has been alone for a long time. He noted that since 2013, 12 years have passed. He has been on a journey of self-discovery following the divorce.
Burale admitted that he makes a daily prayer. He prays that he does not fall sick and need an emergency because he is alone.
He used the platform to offer advice to men. He stated that men should prepare to be husbands, rather than just seeking a wife.
by moses sagwe
