Traditionally, funerals were solemn, quiet affairs with black clothes and hushed tones. Today, many are turning into vibrant celebrations, complete with music, elaborate food, and even cocktails. This change is sparking a lively debate online.
A Funeral That Looks Like a Garden Party
A recent viral video shows a funeral where mourners are served colorful drinks from a fully stocked bar.
Staff, dressed in smart uniforms, carry drinks on trays and hold uQQmbrellas for guests, creating a scene more akin to a fancy outdoor event. The atmosphere is relaxed and celebratory, a stark contrast to the funerals many are used to.
The Internet Reacts
“Lol! That’s innovation at its finest but what’s next? A strip pole?” — Katlego
Others are less impressed, viewing it as a thoughtless display of wealth that can lead to financial trouble.
“What in the name of nonsense is this? See them after a year, when they have to pay to wind up the estate and things start getting repossessed.” — Thoromo Media ZA
“As someone who is in the tents and marquee business, I’m for this, cause you guys aren’t getting married anymore.”
Families want to reflect the unique personality of the person who has passed away. For a loved one who enjoyed life and loved to entertain, a celebratory atmosphere feels like a more fitting tribute.
Celebrating Life: The focus is moving from mourning to celebrating the life that was lived.
Cultural Changes: As social norms evolve, so do our rituals around death. The rise of social media also means that these events are shared more widely, fuelling new trends.
The New Normal?
The question remains whether these “celebration funerals” will become the new standard. While some people may always prefer a more traditional, somber service, the trend shows that many are open to a new, more joyful way of saying farewell.
by bradley odhiambo
