A man from Kiambu county has vividly shared puzzling information about his marriage experience. Kiambu man Pancras Pancras Kagoni had previously narrated how his first wife broke her marital vows after three years. An underlying medical issue concerning her ex-husband’s fertility saw her not only leave Kagoni but also publicize his weakness. How did Kagoni found out about his impotence? Speaking to TUKO.co.ke, Kagoni shared how his ex-wife ruined his reputation by making his secret public. “I was travelling abroad for work and had visited a doctor for a test, as we had been together for over a year yet were not blessed with a child. The results were expected in two weeks, but by then I would have already left the country
. I asked my ex-wife to inform me about the report once it was out. Unfortunately, it took me a while before I got a SIM card to communicate with her. During that time, one of my friends whom I had travelled with was in touch with her, since his wife was also a close friend of ours. It was this friend who told me about the results, that in simple terms, I was impotent. It hit me hard. In doubt, I called my wife, and she read to me word for word the heartbreaking results from the doctor. I was crushed. Back home, she went on to share the delicate information with neighbours, my colleagues, friends, and even my family. It was so bad. I felt betrayed and hurt because that is not the kind of information you should make public. But that was the excuse she was looking for to leave me. I could not give her children, so what was the point of her staying with me?” he asked, noting that his marriage collapsed a couple of years later. Kagoni’s wife opens up about their first meeting Kagoni stayed single for a while before looking for love again, as he took time to heal and get back on his feet.
He later met a woman, Margaret, who surprisingly told him about his life and family without prior knowledge. “God had shown me in about five separate dreams about him. I saw a certain man would approach and ask for my hand in marriage. God showed me his neighbourhood, his family, and much more. I was ready for the moment,” she said. Kagoni opens up on visiting experts, trying traditional medicines Kagoni found true love in Margaret, but there was still one challenge: they have never blessed with a child. In his desperation and frustration, Kagoni revealed that he gave his second wife Margaret permission to look for a man who could give her a child. “I once told my wife, instead of wasting your time, why don’t you go and get a child and we can raise it together? With me, it is not possible. I had used all the money and seen almost every doctor. I even tried traditional medicines from different cultures. I have visited experts, but nothing has worked out,” he shared.
By John Green
