In a powerful and candid message that has resonated with many, popular Kenyan entertainer and radio host Oga Obinna has urged individuals to keep their relationships private, away from the prying eyes of social media.
The statement, “Kama Uko Na Mtu Wako, Keep It Out Of Social Media – People Can’t Destroy Things They Don’t Know,” translates to “If you are with someone, keep it off social media – people can’t destroy things they don’t know.”
Obinna delivered this advice during a recent public appearance, drawing from his own experiences and observations of celebrity relationships in the public eye.
His message isn’t just a cautionary tale but a strategic piece of advice aimed at preserving the sanctity and longevity of a partnership.
He argued that social media, while a great tool for connection and business, often serves as a breeding ground for jealousy, external pressures, and malicious gossip that can cripple even the strongest of bonds.
The comedian-turned-media personality emphasized that once a relationship becomes a public spectacle, it is no longer solely the couple’s to control.
Friends, fans, and even strangers feel entitled to comment, criticize, and speculate.
This constant scrutiny creates an environment where every disagreement becomes a public drama and every private moment is subject to judgment.
Obinna highlighted that the anonymity and distance of social media embolden people to say things they wouldn’t dare say in person, often planting seeds of doubt and discord.
“When you post your partner and your relationship online, you are essentially opening the door for everyone to walk in and mess with your house,” Obinna said, using an analogy that struck a chord with his audience.
He stressed that a relationship’s strength is often tested in private, and it’s in those moments of vulnerability that external noise can be most destructive.
By keeping a relationship a private affair, couples can navigate their challenges without the added pressure of public opinion.
Obinna’s message taps into a growing sentiment among young Kenyans who are increasingly wary of the downsides of living a life “for the gram.” The pressure to showcase a perfect life online can be exhausting and, ultimately, detrimental to one’s happiness.
His words offer a refreshing perspective, encouraging authenticity and genuine connection over curated public displays of affection.
The message has since gone viral, with countless social media users sharing their own stories and agreeing with Obinna’s take.
It has sparked a crucial conversation about the boundaries between public and private life in the digital age, especially concerning romantic relationships.
by sheila chelangat
