Her Evening Drive Co–host on Kiss FM Xclusive was ready and waiting to give details on what he thinks about Mwalimu’s question.
He started by saying: “Kama amevaa trouser haiguzi ankles na a shirt that would burst if he sneezed. That’s a red flag.”
No 2?
” Check his followers if he is just following type of person eg socialite it’s a red flag
Exclusive also stated that a man who constantly takes selfies, especially with celebrities, and posts them online is a red flag.
Desperate for love.
On the other hand, Motivational speaker Sam West has shared 7 signs that point out you are desperate for love.
Ignoring red flags
It is easy to ignore red flags hoping someone will change when one is in love.
In worst-case scenarios, such ignorance leads to one being mistreated and disrespected.
Prioritizing others over you
Self-love is important but one thing people who are desperate for love do is not put themselves first.
Such people will do anything to make the other person happy even if it costs them their peace.
Changing yourself to fit in
Changing or making yourself unseeable to suit the other person is one sign of desperation.
Accepting Mistreatment
We have seen people who are cheated on over and over again, beaten up, abused financially but they still stay.
Being overly clingy
There is a difference between being in love and being Clingy.
Clingy people fear losing their crushes to other people and assume by being clingy they will win their love.
Mwalimu Rachel and Exclusive
Excessive gifts and favors
The truth is money cannot buy love.
Some people think by lavishing their crushes with money and gifts, they will end up falling in love with them.
Settling for less
The biological clock especially in women makes them fall prey to settling for less.
This is because the society has certain standards and expectations of women at different stages in their lives.
They are expected to excel in school, get married, have kids, and grow old.
This makes some people both men and women desperate.
Mwalimu was curious as to whether men are constantly on Tiktok doing videos and taking selfies should also be considered a red flag.
Red flags are things you should run away from during or before starting a relationship.
Green flags on the other hand are positive characteristics or habits in a partner.
What are some of the red flags you look out for in a relationship?
by PENINAH NJOKI
